Gentle, time-tested herbal support to help you feel like yourself again.
Life doesn’t slow down, and for women, the internal rhythms of hormones, emotions, and responsibilities often make the journey feel even more intense. From monthly cycles to major life changes like perimenopause and menopause, our emotional state is inextricably linked to our physical and energetic well-being.
At Chinaherb, we believe emotional balance isn’t a luxury; it’s your foundation for thriving.
In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), emotional health is closely connected to the free flow of Qi (energy) through the Liver and the nourishing strength of the Spleen. When these systems are supported and working in harmony, emotions feel more balanced, the mind is clear, and the body feels centred and steady.
Merry Life Formula
Gentle hormonal and emotional support for everyday stress, PMS, and cycle irregularity.
Merry Life Formula is based on the classical formula Xiao Yao San, first recorded during the Song Dynasty. Initially created to support noblewomen experiencing emotional stress, menstrual irregularities, and fatigue, it has stood the test of time and remains one of the most commonly used TCM formulas for emotional and hormonal balance.
This formula works by soothing Liver Qi stagnation (a root cause of emotional tension and PMS in TCM) and strengthening the Spleen, which helps with energy, digestion, and emotional resilience. In modern terms, this means helping your body process stress more effectively while easing the emotional and physical symptoms that often accompany hormonal shifts.
Used for symptoms like:
- PMS and mood swings
- Irritability, frustration, or emotional heaviness
- Irregular menstruation or stress-related low libido
- Breast tenderness, bloating, and fatigue before your period
- Mild depression or emotional burnout
Relaxed Wanderer
Cooling, calming support for emotional intensity, hormonal heat, and perimenopausal shifts.
Relaxed Wanderer is a modern variation of the Merry Life Formula, with added herbs like Gardenia fruit and Cortex Moutan to help clear internal Heat, a TCM term used to describe symptoms of emotional or hormonal “overheating.” This includes increased irritability, restlessness, insomnia, acne, sweating, and hot flushes, especially around your cycle or during perimenopause and menopause.
It supports the same core Liver and Spleen systems, while offering an extra layer of relief for those who feel emotionally overwhelmed, overstimulated, or burned out.
Best for symptoms such as:
- Increased Irritability and agitation
- Night sweats, hot flashes, and hormonal heat
- Emotional sensitivity or mood swings
- Acne or skin flare-ups around your period
- Restlessness, anxiety, hyperactivity, or difficulty sleeping
Why These Formulas Work
In TCM, imbalances in Liver Qi and Spleen energy are often behind emotional ups and downs, menstrual difficulties, and stress-related symptoms. These formulas don’t suppress your natural rhythm—they support it. By helping energy flow more freely and strengthening the systems that nourish your body and mind, both Merry Life Formula and Relaxed Wanderer offer a gentle yet powerful foundation for emotional resilience.
Whether you’re managing PMS, navigating hormonal transitions, or feeling emotionally fatigued by life’s demands, these blends offer natural, steady support to help you come back to centre.
Balance isn’t something you have to chase; it’s something you can restore.
Explore our range of formulas designed with women’s emotional and hormonal needs in mind, all rooted in centuries of Traditional Chinese Medicine wisdom and tailored for modern life.
Shop both of these products via our online store HERE.


I wanna ask about hormone herbs ang gut herbs
Hi Zanele please send us an email to online@chinaherb.co.za 🙂
Hi there.
I would like to know if it is necessary to use both at the same time or is one sufficient enough according to your own needs
Hi Debra its easier Merry life Formula or if experience more heat symptoms like described use Relaxed Wanderer. Not both together 🙂
hi I would like to know if you have any thing for leg cramps and for the gut
Hi please send us an email with more symptoms 🙂